ANGER...a killer

How anger hurts? Not others but yourself as well. You loose all, your loved ones, relationships and care. Anger is termite that chews its way up the tree of relationship. I have seen people, great, amazing people getting angry very quickly with slightest of triggers.

I am sure you all have heard the saying: "Don't be like someone who starts in anger and sit down with a loss" if  you know this old adage then you must also realize what it means. Believe me you can not hurt anyone more than the person who loves you as they are more vulnerable and more exposed! You actually know when and where to hit.

Love is an amazing medicine that heals all and gives a person the courage to stand for the right things, do good and spread happiness among all, where as, anger only creates more anger with a dressing of hurt and pain to go with it.

What a person can do to control his / her anger? Whenever you get angry think all the good things that happen to you, how another person loves you and is crazy for you. Most importantly remember what your anger will cost them! Whenever we hurt a person, we give them a wound. Wounds do heal unfortunately scars never go. They leave an ugly mark to remind you of what happened. REMEMBER THAT!

As for the person who loves you, he / she should handle you with so much love and care as if you are made of glass and are very fragile! This will help you or the other person to bring down their temper and relax.

In anger both the parties get hurt and affected. So, its not your or your partner's loss only! it is the loss of your relationship. Why hurt something that we have created with love and affection and have nurtured with great care and patience. sometimes, we with great luck finds a person who is one in a million....why hurt or loose them??

think about it!  


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