Life as I see it

22nd Sep '12


From the moment a person opens his/her eyes the experiences began to happen which shapes the attitude and the mindset of the person and make him what he is. Is it not amazing that the moment eyes open our lives start shaping up, experiences happen and we become an individual with an specific identity and personality.

But what goes wrong then? Why some of us become bad? or Sad? or disappointed or disturbed? Why life turns us into cynics?? Why we feel despair? Life is suppose to be happy, sweet and full of love and care. Why we loose it??

When a kid is born he is like a sponge, absorbing everything that comes his way, the relations, attention, surroundings....everything! Along the way he experiences many things, various emotions that effect his thinking, alters his beliefs and shape his attitude.

You know everyone of us has been bestowed with same intellect and feelings, it is just the experiences that mold us. We believe as a kid that we'll do that, or we'll become this, yet when we grow up we realize that its not what we thought it will be....and if you have faced too many failures and heart breaks at a young age then your life would be even more dramatic then the rest. The question is how to go about living? and not only living but living in a positive fashion and being happy with what you have.

As far as my experience goes I have seen my fair share of sorrows, hurt and betrayals but all I can advice anybody is to stay focused on the good side and try to be your own best buddy! No body can be your friend better than your own self...heck who knows you better than you yourself?? Our families usually do pass comments like they know you completely, trust me they do not! and how could they? they cant know or understand what goes inside your head or what exactly your feeling....they know only what you want them to know...


Yes they can and they do guess what your upto at times but they can never understand it completley and can never think or act like you. It's not their fault! You are unique and so are they in their own way.....its just that they shouldn't try to control you and you shouldn't do the same.


Honestly, a lot of negativtiy in our lives will end if we respect each others decisions and believes and give each other a healthy space to live and be ourselves.



I'm trying and I'm sure so are you....


Stay focused and stay positive!


Happy living!

Comments

  1. AnonymousSeptember 22, 2012 at 11:32 AM

    A very Good read! I must appreciate the way you have written this! Hope to read more of these.

    Keep up the good work!

    Warm Regards,

    Your Well Wisher!

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